Your ship can occupy the same space as another ship, a station, a planet, or even a star without any ill effects.
m is used to bring up a map of the system. It will show stars, planets, and known stations.
a is used to speed up the game for cross-system travel. You will leave autopilot mode if you leave map mode or enter most commands.
p pauses the game.
space or ctrl fires your selected weapon.
shift fires a missile.
w cycles through your non-missile weapons.
tab cycles through your missiles.
u uses items. You select an item with the arrow keys. Beware that the game is not paused while you select an item. Some items have letters next to them which can be used to activate them without cycling through the list.
d docks with the nearest station if it is close enough.
b enables or disables devices. You may have devices disabled if you overload your reactor. Beware this does not pause the game. You may also disable devices to avoid overloading your reactor.
s brings up the ship menu. It is used to view your equipment, cargo, and to refuel from fuel rods.